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	<title>Comments on: that facebook thing</title>
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	<description>the black swan with digital wings</description>
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		<title>By: Life after Facebook. &#124; cygnoir.net</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-6481</link>
		<dc:creator>Life after Facebook. &#124; cygnoir.net</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 06:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Friday, I deactivated my Facebook account. I have been complaining about Facebook for a while now, so it was time for action. I opted for deactivation first before deletion because I wanted to see [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Friday, I deactivated my Facebook account. I have been complaining about Facebook for a while now, so it was time for action. I opted for deactivation first before deletion because I wanted to see [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Fawn</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3455</link>
		<dc:creator>Fawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, it&#039;s ON.</description>
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		<title>By: cygnoir</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3454</link>
		<dc:creator>cygnoir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:18:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I come back to Facebook, I&#039;m totally inviting you to a game of Scrabble! :)</description>
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		<title>By: Fawn</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3453</link>
		<dc:creator>Fawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:21:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Has FB changed my life? Not really. It&#039;s just another way for me to interact with people I already know. I mostly use it to play Scrabble with a couple of distant friends. I do note that I have a policy of only &quot;friending&quot; people whose lives I actually, you know, care about. It did connect me to a handful of people I&#039;d lost touch with long ago, but would I call that life-changing? Nah.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has FB changed my life? Not really. It&#8217;s just another way for me to interact with people I already know. I mostly use it to play Scrabble with a couple of distant friends. I do note that I have a policy of only &#8220;friending&#8221; people whose lives I actually, you know, care about. It did connect me to a handful of people I&#8217;d lost touch with long ago, but would I call that life-changing? Nah.</p>
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		<title>By: cygnoir</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3452</link>
		<dc:creator>cygnoir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think the number of contacts changes the experience for me; I think that my perspective on it is broken.

I want to interact with people, and Facebook can be a good vehicle for that interaction.  Yet in 98% of the interactions, I am left feeling more alone than ever, unsure whether or not I have presented myself accurately -- which is always a concern online -- and whether or not I have &quot;read&quot; my contacts accurately.

This perspective comes from wanting to feel closer to someone after an interaction, and instead I feel more isolated.

To answer your question, it was a decision made of laziness. I don&#039;t feel like spending the time to dismantle everything if I am going to return eventually with a healthier attitude about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think the number of contacts changes the experience for me; I think that my perspective on it is broken.</p>
<p>I want to interact with people, and Facebook can be a good vehicle for that interaction.  Yet in 98% of the interactions, I am left feeling more alone than ever, unsure whether or not I have presented myself accurately &#8212; which is always a concern online &#8212; and whether or not I have &#8220;read&#8221; my contacts accurately.</p>
<p>This perspective comes from wanting to feel closer to someone after an interaction, and instead I feel more isolated.</p>
<p>To answer your question, it was a decision made of laziness. I don&#8217;t feel like spending the time to dismantle everything if I am going to return eventually with a healthier attitude about it.</p>
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		<title>By: cygnoir</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3451</link>
		<dc:creator>cygnoir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for weighing in, Greg! I agree with much of what you are saying here, though I hadn&#039;t previously put much thought into Facebook as a grassroots organizational tool.

I think it can be handy for certain small businesses that want to keep in touch with their customer base, but so far as organizing groups -- I haven&#039;t had much luck with it.  I created a page for the San Francisco Flickr User Group (SFlickr) and no one really uses it, perhaps because it duplicates the functionality of so many other websites (Twitter, SFlickr.org, Flickr groups). Yet people may be starting to expect Facebook pages (like we started to expect Twitter accounts) so I will keep it up as a signpost for now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for weighing in, Greg! I agree with much of what you are saying here, though I hadn&#8217;t previously put much thought into Facebook as a grassroots organizational tool.</p>
<p>I think it can be handy for certain small businesses that want to keep in touch with their customer base, but so far as organizing groups &#8212; I haven&#8217;t had much luck with it.  I created a page for the San Francisco Flickr User Group (SFlickr) and no one really uses it, perhaps because it duplicates the functionality of so many other websites (Twitter, SFlickr.org, Flickr groups). Yet people may be starting to expect Facebook pages (like we started to expect Twitter accounts) so I will keep it up as a signpost for now.</p>
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		<title>By: mish</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3450</link>
		<dc:creator>mish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Facebook is an odd combination of royal-pain-in-the-assery and great fun, imo.  I really do think that the number of &quot;friends&quot; one adds will either make it or break it for the user.

Curious... what made you decide to keep pushing your other feeds to Faceboook even though you won&#039;t be reading/interacting there?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Facebook is an odd combination of royal-pain-in-the-assery and great fun, imo.  I really do think that the number of &#8220;friends&#8221; one adds will either make it or break it for the user.</p>
<p>Curious&#8230; what made you decide to keep pushing your other feeds to Faceboook even though you won&#8217;t be reading/interacting there?</p>
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		<title>By: njudah</title>
		<link>http://cygnoir.net/2009/11/05/that-facebook-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-3449</link>
		<dc:creator>njudah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 10:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well said.

I have been using FB for various ends and I find it sucks. Pardon the language but it does. it&#039;s really NOT a way to organize organically and for the grassroots, it&#039;s a race for &quot;fans&quot; that is meaningless (ask Gavin) and constantly changes in ways that are not benefitting grassroots efforts.

I get way more out of the Twtitter back and forth between good people such as yourself and others, and being informed by what&#039;s going down &quot;on the ground&quot; when I can&#039;t be there myself.

Facebook is too busy bolting on the world&#039;s biggest picture sharing service onto a proprietary social networking service that has NEVER made money (thank YOU Karl Long!) and lying to its users, well, all I can say is you escaped!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well said.</p>
<p>I have been using FB for various ends and I find it sucks. Pardon the language but it does. it&#8217;s really NOT a way to organize organically and for the grassroots, it&#8217;s a race for &#8220;fans&#8221; that is meaningless (ask Gavin) and constantly changes in ways that are not benefitting grassroots efforts.</p>
<p>I get way more out of the Twtitter back and forth between good people such as yourself and others, and being informed by what&#8217;s going down &#8220;on the ground&#8221; when I can&#8217;t be there myself.</p>
<p>Facebook is too busy bolting on the world&#8217;s biggest picture sharing service onto a proprietary social networking service that has NEVER made money (thank YOU Karl Long!) and lying to its users, well, all I can say is you escaped!</p>
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